CONSCIOUS CONNECTIONS

Move beyond the small talk and the swiping. Join a grounded social ecosystem for South African singles to practice authentic relating, playful boundaries, and real human connection .

CONSCIOUS CONNECTIONS

Move beyond the small talk and the swiping. Join a grounded social ecosystem for South African singles to practice authentic relating, playful boundaries, and real human connection.

What We Do (The Offerings)

  • Workshop & Social Connection Events: 1-hour "Relational Labs" focusing on the Wheel of Consent and communication, authentic relating. Followed by some fun and playful connection activities, and then opportunities to socialise.
  • Socials: Low-pressure gatherings (Dance, Karaoke, Games) to practice your new skills.
  • The Community: Access to our curated WhatsApp group for those who have completed the "Foundations".
  • The Foundation Singles: Fun and Engaging singles events for those having completed the "Foundations".

🌟 Meet Yuri Nunes 

Educator. Coach. Facilitator. Mindful Change-Maker.

Having facilitated workshops across the globe—from corporate boardrooms to women’s circles—Yuri specialises in 'unpacking the stuff of being human.'
He helps people bridge the gap between their external success and their internal peace, making the deep work of boundaries and connection accessible, grounded, and—most importantly—fun.

What Makes These "Match Up" Events Different?

Most singles events feel like a high-pressure job interview where you’re forced to sell a polished version of yourself. Conscious Connections SA flips the script. We’ve removed the "performance" and replaced it with Relational Intelligence.

1. We prioritize "The Self" before "The Other"


Traditional dating asks: "Is this person right for me?" We ask: "How am I showing up in this moment?" We believe you don’t need someone to complete you; you need to be whole to meet someone who complements you. Our events help you identify the internal patterns—like people-pleasing or fear of rejection—that might be holding you back from a truly vibrant connection.

2. We use the "Wheel of Consent" Framework


Consent isn't just a "Yes" or "No"—it’s a communication skill. We teach you how to navigate the 4 Quadrants of relating. By learning how to make clear requests and give honest boundaries, the "awkwardness" of meeting someone new vanishes. You gain the safety to be playful because you know how to be clear.

3. Guided Play, Not Forced Small Talk


Forget "What do you do for a living?" Our events are curated social labs. We use "Low Stakes/Silly" games to break the ice and "High Stakes/Connective" exercises to spark depth. You’ll find yourself laughing, moving, and sharing stories before you even realize you’re at a "singles" event.

4. A Curated Social Ecosystem


We aren't a one-night stand; we are a community. By attending a "Foundations" event, you enter a curated ecosystem of like-minded South Africans who value growth and mindfulness. Our exclusive WhatsApp group ensures the connections you make have the space to evolve into lasting friendships or deep partnerships.

Connections That Begin Within.

Our events are designed as Somatic Laboratories for the Soul. We move away from the "performance" of traditional dating and into the practice of "Integrated Relating."

Each experience is built on three pillars:

  • Self-Inquiry: We use guided exercises to help you identify where you might be holding yourself back. Is it a fear of rejection? A struggle with boundaries? A habit of people-pleasing? We look at these "edges" with kindness and curiosity.
  • The Architecture of Authenticity: Through the Wheel of Consent and communication tools, we teach you how to "unlearn" the behaviors that mask your true self. You will practice showing up exactly as you are—vulnerable, playful, and honest.
  • Complementary Connection: We shift the goal from searching to attracting. By focusing on your own healing and evolution during the event, you naturally connect with others from a place of wholeness. Our games and interactions are designed to show you that a healthy relationship isn't two halves becoming one, but two whole individuals choosing to journey together.

The Result: You leave our events not just with new connections (possibly phone numbers - depending on the event), but with a clearer, more loving understanding of yourself—making you ready to meet someone who matches your frequency.