Drop the Mask.
Start Connecting.

Move beyond the fatigue of modern dating. Join a grounded social ecosystem in South Africa designed to help you unlearn the patterns holding you back, so you can meet someone who complements the person you are becoming.

Event 1: The Foundations Lab

Theme: Connection Without the Performance

Date: [Insert Date]

Time: 18:30 for 19:00 start (2-3 hour experience)

Location: [Insert Venue Name/Area]

Cost: R300pp

🌟 For more info: nunes.yd@gmail.com

Common Questions

Most mixers focus on meeting as many people as possible. The Foundations Lab focuses on quality—how you actually show up. We use the Wheel of Consent to bypass standard data-swapping and get straight to presence and vulnerability.

We use a Mediated Exchange System. You can note down the person you resonated with on a "Connection Card" and hand it to the facilitator. If the interest is mutual, we facilitate the introduction for you the following day.

No. We teach that "No" is a complete sentence. This is a brave space, not a forced one. You are always in control of your participation, and we celebrate clear boundaries.

Event #1 Specifics

The Breakdown: This is our flagship "Foundations" experience. Before we play, we learn the rules of the game. Yuri will lead you through somatic exercises designed to lower social anxiety and raise relational intelligence.

Phase 1: Pattern Recognition

Identifying the internal patterns—like people-pleasing or "masking"—that hold you back from authentic connection.

Phase 2: The Wheel of Consent

An accessible deep-dive into making clear requests and learning how to give (and receive) a "No" with grace.

Phase 3: Real-Time Integration

Low-stakes connection games where you test your new tools in real-time. Connect, socialise, and have genuine fun.

Secure your place in the Foundations Lab.
Our events are kept intimate to ensure high-quality connection.

🔒 Secure Registration via Google Forms

Event 2: The Social Playground

Theme: Guided Games & Authentic Relating

Date: [Insert Date - usually 2 weeks after Event 1]

Time: 19:00 – 21:00

Location: [Insert Venue Name/Area]

Cost: R300pp

Requirement: Completion of "The Foundations Lab" (or a spirit of openness for newcomers)

🌟 Questions? nunes.yd@gmail.com

Social Ecosystem FAQ

We design the evening to take that pressure off. The goal is to practice being your "newer, truer version" in a playful environment. Genuine chemistry happens naturally when you bypass the "interview" vibe.

It’s actually the opposite. It is Relational Intelligence. We teach you how to share your "social edges"—like feeling nervous or excited—which actually makes you more magnetic and approachable.

That’s a successful night! Many participants leave with new friends or a higher level of confidence. By removing the "Finding The One" pressure, you become more relaxed—which is the most attractive state you can be in.

Event #2 Specifics

The Breakdown: Now that we have the tools, it’s time to play. This event is less "workshop" and more "facilitated social." We skip the awkward bar vibes and move straight into joyful exploration.

Phase 1: The Melt

Short, silly icebreakers designed to get us out of our analytical heads and into our bodies.

Phase 2: The Inquiry

Guided "speed-relating" using prompts that spark genuine depth, moving far beyond standard data-swapping.

Phase 3: The Free Flow

Open social time with a curated soundtrack. Yuri is on hand to help you practice your "Practice of No" and facilitate smooth contact sharing.

Ready for the Social Playground?
Join a community of whole individuals choosing to journey together.

*Remember: This event is best enjoyed after the Foundations Lab.